Actions louder than words
"I'm so proud of you" "We dont have to worry about you" "You think about your decisions" "Your babies will be beautiful" "All my grandchildren get all the same love"
silence
more silence
"Oh, you remembered where we lived then" "You guys are always so busy" "No, I can't help today, I have too much on" "Why would I see her on her birthday, you know I'm busy on Mondays"
When people speak words, but their actions don't match up and ultimately make you feel crap and unwanted, what do you do in that situation?
Don't be surprised when that door shuts and you can't spout your worthless words anymore. Either show up or shut the fuck up.
all bark no bite.